Let Me Clarify

After my last wash session, I knew I had gone too long without clarifying. My hair was curly, but something was just off. It felt dull, lifeless. To clarify, I don’t use anything fancy, but I still don’t use shampoo, which I feel, strips my hair beyond a quick repair. I had an event yesterday and had no room for a hair mishap.

Although, my clarifying routine consists of 2 oz. of my As I Am Coconut Cowash Cleansing Conditioner, two teaspoons of baking soda and water and aloe vera juice, I had been wanting to experiment with bentonite clay since I read about the Maximum Hydration Method. The MHM is not for everyone, me included. It consists of several steps repeated daily for a week. I don’t have that kind of time, but that doesn’t mean I couldn’t try bentonite clay at all. The trouble was getting my hands on it. I had been to countless beauty supply stores in Dallas, including my favorite, Hair and Beauty Supply in Uptown, but no one carried it. Of course, I could get it online, but I didn’t want to pay for shipping since I knew the clay was heavy.

Then I heard the Vitamin Shoppe carried it. On Friday, I excitedly drove over to the one on Lover’s Lane to pick up my first container. Alas, I was met with an empty shelf. The clerk said ever since it was mentioned on Dr. Oz, they can’t keep it in stock. Thanks, Doc! For those unfamiliar with the area, there is a health food store called, Central Market right across the street. CM is a local Texas version of Whole Foods, only slightly better by my standards.

Lo and behold! Central Market got the gold star on this one. Not only did they have the bentonite clay, but they had the 2-lb. jar for $10! After declaring lifelong loyalty to the chain and wondering why I didn’t start there, I ran home to begin my two-day clarifying process that starts with a prepoo. Take a look at my steps:

  1. Prepoo overnight. This saturates my hair and scalp with emollients, protecting it from being stripped during the clarifying process.
  2. Rinse out prepoo until water is clear. This is easy because I use cocoa powder in my prepoo, which is easy to see once it’s all out because the water runs clear.
  3. Apply clarifying mixture that is described above using an applicator bottle. Bag and seal for 45 minutes to an hour.
  4. Rinse, apply rinse-out conditioner, comb through and rinse.
  5. Step out of the shower and apply bentonite clay. I mixed mine with apple cider vinegar, coconut milk and aloe vera juice, again purchased at Central Market. Application of the clay is similar to your styling process. You shingle and rake the clay through your hair. I found that the coconut milk gave the clay more slip, which I found incredibly helpful. In case it’s unclear, I used coconut milk because both the clay and the aloe have clarifying properties (aloe vera is an astringent), so the coconut milk adds moisture to prevent overdrying.

    Bentonite Clay application before and after.

    Bentonite Clay application before and after.

  6. Let the clay sit in your hair for about an hour without drying. If your hair starts to dry, then wash it out despite the time. You can bag and seal if you want to keep it in for an extended period. I didn’t do that this time. After the alotted time, rinse out. Do not cleanse.
  7. Apply deep conditioner. I bagged and sealed mine for an overnight intense deep conditioning with SheaMoisture’s Intense Hydration Hair Masque. This was my first time using the product and I was happy with the results.
  8. Rinse out. Apply rinse-out conditioner and do the final cold rinse.
  9. LOC or LCO, whichever is your preference and style as usual.

I am very happy with my final results. My hair was clumped after the rinsing out of the bentonite clay. It was soft, fluffy and well conditioned.

After the entire process, but pre-product.

After the entire process, but pre-product. My hair clumped without product!

I didn’t experience any of the dryness that some have said was a problem for them after the clay application. Here is what I used:

I used everything in this picture except for the VO5. I decided to avoid silicones since that's the point of clarifying. I will use them again because they are awesome for prepoos and final conditioning.

I used everything in this picture except for the VO5. 

My final result: My curls are back to feeling soft, fluffy but are also elongated and very defined. I was able to style my hair for the first time without using pins in the front. Yay for the small victories! Here’s how I looked for the event with first-day hair!

First-day hair after clarifying with baking soda and bentonite clay in a two-day process.

First-day hair after clarifying with baking soda and bentonite clay in a two-day process.

What is your clarifying process? What products do you use?

Product Review: I Can’t Believe It’s Hair Butter!

Last week was a whirlwind of activities, most of which was putting out fires. I’m in the planning mode of a new natural hair project that I will share here first when it moves into the marketing phase. So stay tuned for that in the next few weeks. Despite how tired, frazzled and frustrated I may get, it’s a relief to know my hair doesn’t reflect how I feel. If you’ve been keeping up with #hairbeautybuzz, you know that I’m trying out Nyambi Naturals from this blog I wrote not too long ago.

One of the first things I tried out of my goodie box was the Hair and Body Butter. Now, I will tell you from the outset, I’m skeptical of products that have dual purposes in such vastly different applications, so while I expected it to be great for the heels of my feet and my elbows, I didn’t expect that it would be great for my hair.

This is what my hair looked like after that first use:

My first attempt using Nyambi Naturals' Hair Butter.

My first attempt using Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter.

I took a gamble because I was in a natural hair photo shoot the same day I used it for the first time, which you are never supposed to do, but I was happy with the results. In the picture, my hair is still wet. I used too much product because I realized it clumped my hair. It clumped my hair! I will say it again: IT. CLUMPED. MY. HAIR. Did you get that? OK. I’m not one of those naturals whose hair clumps with water. I have to use Ms. Kendra K’s “Shingle, Rake & Shake” after applying my favorite gel, Ecostyler by Ecoco Beauty, which I buy from Hair and Beauty Mart in Dallas by the 5-lb. bucket.<— More on that later. I could have used just Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter for a softer set, and if I did, I would still have curls. Alas, I’m addicted to high curl definition, so I layered my Olive Oil Ecostyler over it. To my glee, the products worked well together. After getting over my obsession with clumping, for my next experiment with the product, I just used Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter to seal. Here are my results from that session, which was last Sunday:

I used Nyambi Naturals' Hair Butter to seal in my LOC method.

I used Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter to seal in my LOC method.

As you can see, my high definition is in full curl effect! My hair was much lighter too since I didn’t use much. Today, I used it in the same way with similar results. See below:

My results from my third use of Nyambi Naturals' Hair Butter.

My results from my third use of Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter.

So here’s my assessment of the Nyambi Naturals’ Hair Butter: It smells fabulous and it will make your hair smell fabulous too. It clumps even my 4a patch of hair, which is something previously only Ecostyler gel could claim to do on my hair. It has multiple applications, such as styling aid, sealer and as a possible additive to your conditioning treatments. It’s economical. A little goes a long way. So, I love it and give it 5 out of 5 Stars! Really terrific hair product.

The one thing I would like to see, and am told will be added to the line soon, is a whipped version of this awesome product. In the Dallas heat, I can see the thicker consistency being an issue in the summer months, but a lighter version would work beautifully. I’m looking forward to getting my hands on that because it would be great to use a whipped version in the summer, and the original in the winter to protect my strands during the colder weather.

Perhaps, I’ll get to try it at this month’s Mix, Match and Massage at the Brooklyn Nights Bar in Brooklyn, NY on May 17th. This event looks like a lot of fun where you get to choose two of your favorite products for one low price, get a free chair massage, make-up retouch and studio pics with Summer Wayans all for no extra charge! By the way, we are all invited!

Nyambi Naturals Mix, Match & Massage at Brooklyn Nights Bar, 497 Dekalb Ave., on May 17th.

Nyambi Naturals Mix, Match & Massage at Brooklyn Nights Bar, 497 Dekalb Ave., on May 17th.

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Introducing Nyambi Naturals: The Unboxing

I’ve been busy this past week, and while there haven’t been any breakthroughs — or breakdowns — with my hair, I’ve decided to give some space on this here #hairbeautybuzz blog to, er, beauty.

Last week, I received a box that was relatively normal until I opened it. Immediately, upon peeling the cardboard flaps back, I knew I had something special. Here’s something you should know about me: I’m all about ambiance and presentation. Whether it’s food, lounges, music, whatever. In order to get my attention, you have to start with the right look and feel. After folding those brown flaps back, an aroma comprised of honey, vanilla, grapefruit and other scents wafted up and enveloped me, inviting me to dig further. Mind you, I hadn’t opened anything but the box. Staring back at me was this:

The presentation lets you know you're in for a treat.

The presentation lets you know you’re in for a treat.

This beautiful burlap bag from Nyambi Naturals held all kinds of goods and treats that I’m always in the mood to enjoy. After seizing the moment and snapping that picture, I quickly cut the tag off and opened it to inspect my goodies: Chamomile Soap, Honey Vanilla Souffle, Spring Garden Sugar Scrub and more. So. Much. More.

Soaps, Sugar Scrubs, Body Butter and Souffles

Soaps, Sugar Scrubs, Body Butters, and Souffles

There was so much in the $50.00 bag of treats that I’m going to share some of it. I won’t give my review now because it would be based on merely the superb delivery and presentation, but for those categories, Nyambi Naturals gets 5-stars from me. Plus the value is never-ending. At first, I thought the products were delivered in a bag, but no. It’s a planter! See the philosophy that Nyambi Naturals is built on is about sustainable, all-natural, organic ingredients. Nyambi actually grows some of the ingredients herself, but all are gleaned from healthy, non-chemical sources. As an added feature, with this purchase, she encourages her customers to grow something of their own.

You can expect to hear more from me about Nyambi Naturals as I experience the products in all their luxuriating glory. Here’s a quick look at some of my treats in this delivery.

I already have 30—yes, THIRTY—basil plants growing on my balcony, which is a story for another day and a different blog. So, I think I’m going to try and grow some lavender in my planter, but I’m open to suggestions.

What do you think I should grow in my Nyambi Naturals’ planter?

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